.Yet what Astrid does not notice but is a truth that both Ortega and also O'Hara-- who possesses pair of kids-- can confirm: The simple fact that your relationship along with your parents changes as well as evolves as you each get older, and with any luck for the better. "Your globe centers around [your children] when they're little ones [and also] it's a great deal job but lovely," O'Hara states. "Eventually, you actually miss out on that, because at that point you can not receive all of them to carry out anything you wish them to carry out, considering that they begin developing their personal minds, their own viewpoints." And also at some point, you wind up in the area O'Hara, whose sons reside in their 20s and also 30s, locates herself today, capable to pick up from her youngsters. "They are actually just such cool young guys," she claims. "I am actually not their colleague, however I love having conversations with them and also understanding how they think of life.".